tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post608530005477288932..comments2023-10-24T05:52:13.860-07:00Comments on VIGALAND: OUT FROM UNDER: THE INFINITE CURSE OF #INCEST and #CHILD SEXUAL ABUSEVigabohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-32379848023202965602017-05-25T14:38:38.189-07:002017-05-25T14:38:38.189-07:00There's SHOCKING news in the sports betting wo...There's SHOCKING news in the sports betting world.<br /><br />It has been said that any bettor must watch this,<br /><br />Watch this or quit placing bets on sports...<br /><br /><b><a href="http://sports.syntaxlinks.com/r/SportsCashSystem" rel="nofollow">Sports Cash System</a></b> - Robotic Sports Betting Software.Bloggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07287821785570247118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-82098728460936088082013-06-02T07:16:13.383-07:002013-06-02T07:16:13.383-07:00Thank you so much for saying that. It's not an...Thank you so much for saying that. It's not an easy subject to talk about, let alone write about publicly. But it needs to be done. Incest has been and continues to be hidden by victims, abusers, friends and family and it will never stop if victims don't speak up. We are the only weapon against the abusers!Vigabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-27758371213395174592013-05-31T14:13:14.925-07:002013-05-31T14:13:14.925-07:00Your blog helps me in so many ways you don't e...Your blog helps me in so many ways you don't even know. Thank you.mystory.myshamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17014619759831693962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-65564395608281200222013-05-24T09:47:45.422-07:002013-05-24T09:47:45.422-07:00Thanks Darling. I know how deeply you feel this. A...Thanks Darling. I know how deeply you feel this. And even when we know others aren't condemning us, actually believe us, we still worry what they think deep down. We will never convince those who deny the exist of incest but together we can help those who have yet to find the courage to tell their stories, get it off their chests. Maybe friends and family won't believe them but we do because we know it exists. We've lived it and part of us has died with it. But we must continue to SPEAK OUT FROM UNDER!Vigabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-13853159370909186222013-05-24T09:43:25.984-07:002013-05-24T09:43:25.984-07:00See, that's the part that kills me Shayla. You...See, that's the part that kills me Shayla. You and others in our group are being branded crazy, trouble makers, creators of a fantasy. Who would want this hideous "fantasy"? What do we have to gain by telling untruths? Why do they so adamantly deny the possibility, let alone the reality? In the meantime, the abuser sits back untouched and untouchable, or worse yet, moves on to other victims. ARGHHH!Vigabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-81761339557141853652013-05-24T09:40:05.124-07:002013-05-24T09:40:05.124-07:00Yes, Patricia, I know the victims get it. The othe...Yes, Patricia, I know the victims get it. The others? Heads buried in sand. Like I've said elsewhere in this blog, incest is the last taboo and folks just don't want to believe it happens in their homes. They'd rather live in denial or treat it as something we made up. So cruel. So wrong!Vigabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-17939886462654152742013-05-24T09:37:35.582-07:002013-05-24T09:37:35.582-07:00Thanks El. I know you understand and by your own w...Thanks El. I know you understand and by your own writing, how hard you are trying to get the message out there: that what we suffered wasn't wanted and was never our faults. And yes, the crime of it all is not being able to get any justice or closure on it as long as that person is alive, or even after they're gone. They never apologize for what they did and for so many of us, that might be what we most need and will never get. Forge on El. We have a big job to do!Vigabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-63165667434436886032013-05-24T09:34:35.146-07:002013-05-24T09:34:35.146-07:00Thanks Mary. I don't think it's possible f...Thanks Mary. I don't think it's possible for anyone who hasn't experienced incest or child sexual abuse to understand how deeply it affects us, not just at the time, but forever. We are forever changed by it. Thanks for supporting my efforts to speak out for so many of us. Vigabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-7382710215856094732013-05-24T09:32:39.889-07:002013-05-24T09:32:39.889-07:00Thanks Ripeka. It's hard for so many victims t...Thanks Ripeka. It's hard for so many victims to put their pain into words. I'm just happy I was given that ability to speak for those who can't. Thanks for confirming that that is what I do. Vigabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-17082109863728709392013-05-24T06:21:09.802-07:002013-05-24T06:21:09.802-07:00Oh my friend. I can feel your pain. I've often...Oh my friend. I can feel your pain. I've often thought of my own incest at the hands of my father as a curse too. Even now as an adult I struggle with what the family and friends think about what happened to me. Yes, we are told to "Forget it. Move on." But how do we do that? Society won't even accept the truth of Incest and Child Sexual Abuse cases. We must continue to fight the good fight. Bless you, my friend, for your strength, wisdom, and your Voice. If it hadn't been for Out From Under, I wouldn't have found the courage to use my Voice. http://tomorrowsrainbow.blogspot.com/ IAMicriedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086722408998865773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-25770601210735983872013-05-24T00:48:30.191-07:002013-05-24T00:48:30.191-07:00Thank you my friend for speaking out when so many ...Thank you my friend for speaking out when so many can't! I speak out even though my family denies any abuse and has me branded a trouble maker and crazy. <br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07821935960848706945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-29697993088705777332013-05-23T23:25:52.886-07:002013-05-23T23:25:52.886-07:00You may have some who refuse to believe your truth...You may have some who refuse to believe your truth. Most disbelievers are in denial about incest so they can't stand to hear anyone else's story of abuse. Survivors will believe and understand.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-18705864794206038582013-05-23T21:14:49.519-07:002013-05-23T21:14:49.519-07:00Wiping away tears. I understand this. Have had to ...Wiping away tears. I understand this. Have had to write an entirely different book because I cannot name my accusers. I have to believe this is okay, but I grieve the constant re-victimizations we all go through. Love you Viga. Write it sister.El Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15852928942787923550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-7346882465151961772013-05-23T21:00:53.046-07:002013-05-23T21:00:53.046-07:00Wow!!! well said Viga, It does never really go awa...Wow!!! well said Viga, It does never really go away. We move on, we heal, but it's always going to be inside of us. If only people understood that we didn't ask for this to happen, no matter what our age, it is NOT our fault..You did an outstanding write-up Viga, and yes your story does need to be told...<3nippercatshomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642367051111890861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-68824919740413045672013-05-23T20:14:17.882-07:002013-05-23T20:14:17.882-07:00Thank you, again for writing about things that so ...Thank you, again for writing about things that so many of us think but can't speak. The fears that we share, in this "club"that none of us chose to join. So much I wish I could find the words to say, for now, just thanks - again XXXAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10312053886604782006noreply@blogger.com