tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post5689214731951909120..comments2023-10-24T05:52:13.860-07:00Comments on VIGALAND: OUT FROM UNDER: "EMERGING from BROKEN" to "LEARNING TO LOVE MYSELF" by being My Own Best FriendVigabohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3863985539323214850.post-28923786486413739182014-11-02T10:11:26.546-08:002014-11-02T10:11:26.546-08:00I love Darlene's blog. I am downloading the b...I love Darlene's blog. I am downloading the book today. I love what she said, <br /><br />"It was when I stopped fighting to prove that I was right and just believed that I was right, that the healing really began. It was when I saw the truth through the grid of love that I realized that love doesn’t harm. It was when I stopped trying to get the abusive people in my life and the people who supported them and their practices to HEAR me, and listened to myself instead, that my world began to look brighter."<br /><br />Maybe I should just stop fighting it and realize I don't have to make anyone even my abuser believe what happened. I lived it I know. Sigh. . . . .Deep Breath. . . . I will get there! Thanks for sharing her! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17634524719961083731noreply@blogger.com